Desert Lessons - Part Two
Part One of this article is over in our column at XTri. It covered questions raised by the athletes as well as what I learned from our coaches. This week's article covers the key things that I learned from a decade of triathlon (most of which was spent with an evangelical focus on performance). These lessons are personal to me. They make sense "now" but I don't claim them to be universal truths. I'll wrap up with some tips that I do believe to be quite universal in application. If I had kept these in my mind for the entire decade then I might have enjoyed a deeper level of success. I float them out there because it would be great to see one of my close friends take the lessons of my success a little further than I was able to pull off. You know who you are and you know what I mean -- I'll keep the specifics to myself because I know what it's like to lay it on the line publicly! Lessons From An Athletic Journey
Learn from success -- Jack Daniels, World Class Coach In preparing plans from season to season, change can be useful but remember to keep the core of what is working for you. Quite often another one, two, or three years of a solid plan is what is required to breakthrough. Breakthrough Recovery The single greatest mistake that I made in my elite career was failure to adequately recover from my breakthrough performances. I am not alone -- there are many (far more successful) athletes that have walked a similar path. From June 2004 to March 2005 I was "fast" -- in that I could train/race with pretty much anyone. It was a heady drug and, when you feel like Superman, you can make mistakes. It took a lot of effort to wreck myself! Nine months of athletic rock-stardom was nine more than I was expecting -- and -- I never relied on athletics to make a living. As athletes, you won't see what I mean until after you have made the same mistake. However, I know a number of coaches read my blog. Coaches, you can probably double, or triple, the lifetime prize money of your best athletes if you apply this lesson. Don't expect them to thank you at the time! Greatest Fears The lesson from facing fear is not that you will triumph, the lesson is you will see your fears for what they are... hollow projections of the mind. Don't get me wrong, you will feel pain -- deep pain -- but that passes and, at the other side, is peace. Just in case you were wondering, my greatest fear was a public meltdown -- I managed to achieve that while wearing Bib #1 at my favorite race in the world!
The regret of sensing your destiny and failing to do everything in your power to head the call... that will haunt you for a long time. Time spent following a deep calling is well spent. The common way out of regret is to start telling yourself stories and create a personal legend. This is the path of cheaters and probably the best argument I know to avoid doping. After all the fans have left you, and your physical gifts wane, you will be left mainly with the memory of how you acted. You can't control your peers -- you have total control of actions that can lead to regret. One True Standard Athletic performance was a complete accident -- I only signed up for an Ironman because I had been convinced that I was likely to die in the Himalayas if I kept climbing! I discovered a gift and decided to take it absolutely as far as I could. I'm happy with the way things turned out -- mistakes, failures, successes, victories -- I wouldn't change a thing. So the final lesson is to remember that ultimately you'll be living with yourself a lot longer than most of those around you. Advice to Aspiring Athletes
You will need to make choices if you want to perform relative to others. You are also going to have to make a habit out of doing things that your competition are unwilling to do. These habits need not be 'evil'! Moderate exercise, eating well and getting enough sleep are probably the greatest areas for us to outperform in the long run (by not dying early). Personal Responsibility Basic Week Your competition does not care about your schedule. We don't get to set the rules of engagement. Learn From Your Students This past winter I mentored a dozen beginners that were preparing for their first triathlon. Many of them fell away along the journey but a core listened, challenged me and applied my teaching. If you want to learn the fundamental principles of performance then listen to your students. Similar to Monica, they give me gentle feedback about my greatest limiters! "Not To Do" Lists
They are small individually but if any of the above becomes a habit then my productivity will plummet and I am a lot less likely to achieve my goals. It might be my personality, but I have an easier time stopping poor choices than nurturing good habits. Hope this helps,
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